10 Common Mistakes in New Relationship

1. Tell each other you love her/him too soon
The Three Little BIG Words. Crucial and demands for a phenomenal amount of responsibility. Yes you won't want to have it too often till you're saturated with the meaning. But if you want to say it, say it when you really, really mean it.

2. Men always initiate sex
A man should be the chief outside the bedroom. But when it comes to sex, it should be an equal game. Both will have to take initiative to enrich sex lives for mutual understanding and keeping the fire burning.

3. Avoid confrontation
Communication is the key to solving problems. Thus, if you avoid talking about them, they'll only get bigger. Saying it and mean what you said, as it will help to build a healthier couple.

4. Forgive all mistakes too easily
Tolerance should be adequate and reasonable. If there are some annoying habits you don't like about each other, throat should be cleared early before it gets worse.

5. Taken each other for granted
In keeping long lasting relationships, the art of seduction is eternal. One of the biggest is men tends to get too comfortable with a woman. Stop taking her out on dates, stop looking attractive for each other, stop being attentive or even ignoring details. If it is a special person, treat them like you just stated anew daily.

6. You don't come clean about your past.
Keeping some skeletons in the closet will do you no good as it will come out sooner or later. You should be honest about your past and vice versa.

7. Meeting friends and family early on
It will be deadly if others get to know him/her better than yourself who will be spending time with. Establish a comfortable understanding prior others.

8. Men lets woman make all the plans
Women dislike men with no decision making skills or with no initiative. Make the plans and be more assertive as a man. Of course, at times you will have to be a little accommodating for the opposite. It is called compromising with respect.

9. Spending all your free time together
You can still mingle around with your buddies for a footie game. Having personal space is important in a healthy relationship. Seeing each other to often will make you sick of each other faster.

10. Shower each other with gifts
Many new couples are equate to spending money on the opposite in making them to like him or her more by showering gifts that are often expensive, for every occasion is a mistake. It suggests a one has little to offer other than what's in his or her checking account. The other party will then begin to expect gifts all the time. Offer something which is priceless: yourself.

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